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		<title>By: Bob</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-305</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2013 19:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@GreatNotBig:twitter I don&#039;t know anyone for whom work being &quot;a source of satisfaction&quot; is an option, so it&#039;s a moot point. For many (most?) of us, work is an imposition, which we deal with as we must, by grinning-and-bearing until it goes away.

No amount of &quot;strategising&quot; alters the basic fact that most work is, by its nature, crap work that the economy demands be done, by someone. The most talented/intelligent (etc) scramble over the pile in order that they don&#039;t need to do it. That inherently leaves a multitude  for whom the idea of work providing &#039;satisfaction&#039; (as opposed to just housing, food etc) is just not relevant. Indeed many Western countries (the US, Australia, Canada) import people for this very purpose. Most human imports are of course in a way &#039;happy&#039; to do the work as a means out of more extreme poverty. But it doesn&#039;t provide a scintilla of intrinsic satisfaction, and they&#039;d dump it the moment they could afford to. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@GreatNotBig:twitter I don&#8217;t know anyone for whom work being &#8220;a source of satisfaction&#8221; is an option, so it&#8217;s a moot point. For many (most?) of us, work is an imposition, which we deal with as we must, by grinning-and-bearing until it goes away.</p>
<p>No amount of &#8220;strategising&#8221; alters the basic fact that most work is, by its nature, crap work that the economy demands be done, by someone. The most talented/intelligent (etc) scramble over the pile in order that they don&#8217;t need to do it. That inherently leaves a multitude  for whom the idea of work providing &#8216;satisfaction&#8217; (as opposed to just housing, food etc) is just not relevant. Indeed many Western countries (the US, Australia, Canada) import people for this very purpose. Most human imports are of course in a way &#8216;happy&#8217; to do the work as a means out of more extreme poverty. But it doesn&#8217;t provide a scintilla of intrinsic satisfaction, and they&#8217;d dump it the moment they could afford to. </p>
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		<title>By: GreatNotBig</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-304</link>
		<dc:creator>GreatNotBig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2013 13:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the contrary viewpoint, Bob.
I don&#039;t agree that getting satisfaction from your work, whatever it is, requires unusual talent, intelligence, good-looks, or being well-situated.

But for the sake of argument, do you think the people who live according to your strategy are as happy as they would have been had they found a way to make work a source of satisfaction?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the contrary viewpoint, Bob.<br />
I don&#8217;t agree that getting satisfaction from your work, whatever it is, requires unusual talent, intelligence, good-looks, or being well-situated.</p>
<p>But for the sake of argument, do you think the people who live according to your strategy are as happy as they would have been had they found a way to make work a source of satisfaction?</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-303</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2013 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hmm. This is entirely directed though towards the talented, intelligent, good-looking, well-situated etc. For the great majority of us who are none of these things, the truth is that work is a torment and waste-of-precious-lifetime that we exchange for money.

Those of you who are more fortunate may not quite believe this, but it&#039;s demonstrably true. *We* all quit work the moment we can: when we retire, win the lottery, get some kind of sickness benefit, marry someone wealthy etc. You don&#039;t notice this, because we&#039;re invisible. We clean your offices, serve your food etc. 

I&#039;ll stick with work-life balance, where that means keeping working hours as short as possible, so as to live as fully as possible in self-owned time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm. This is entirely directed though towards the talented, intelligent, good-looking, well-situated etc. For the great majority of us who are none of these things, the truth is that work is a torment and waste-of-precious-lifetime that we exchange for money.</p>
<p>Those of you who are more fortunate may not quite believe this, but it&#8217;s demonstrably true. *We* all quit work the moment we can: when we retire, win the lottery, get some kind of sickness benefit, marry someone wealthy etc. You don&#8217;t notice this, because we&#8217;re invisible. We clean your offices, serve your food etc. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll stick with work-life balance, where that means keeping working hours as short as possible, so as to live as fully as possible in self-owned time.</p>
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		<title>By: GreatNotBig</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-302</link>
		<dc:creator>GreatNotBig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2013 19:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love the way you put this, and couldn&#039;t agree more about diversity of value creation being the more valuable way to look at it. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the way you put this, and couldn&#8217;t agree more about diversity of value creation being the more valuable way to look at it. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.</p>
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		<title>By: jrullmann</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-299</link>
		<dc:creator>jrullmann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 18:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love this thought:

&quot;...human beings are deeply wired to create value...&quot;

This wiring is what makes work/life balance an unattainable goal.  We can&#039;t simply stop working once we leave the office, because we have an inner drive to accomplish things.  And because we think we&#039;re not supposed to be working we feel guilty and overworked.  What a shame!

We have an incredible diversity of opportunities for creating value.  We can do it by improving our gardens, raising our kids, discussing philosophy with friends, etc.  Let&#039;s put that work on a pedestal, where it belongs.  Let&#039;s celebrate the diversity of ways we can create value.  Then our discussion can change from work/life balance to diversity in our lives.  I can&#039;t help but think that we would feel much happier and lead richer lives with that discussion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this thought:</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;human beings are deeply wired to create value&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>This wiring is what makes work/life balance an unattainable goal.  We can&#8217;t simply stop working once we leave the office, because we have an inner drive to accomplish things.  And because we think we&#8217;re not supposed to be working we feel guilty and overworked.  What a shame!</p>
<p>We have an incredible diversity of opportunities for creating value.  We can do it by improving our gardens, raising our kids, discussing philosophy with friends, etc.  Let&#8217;s put that work on a pedestal, where it belongs.  Let&#8217;s celebrate the diversity of ways we can create value.  Then our discussion can change from work/life balance to diversity in our lives.  I can&#8217;t help but think that we would feel much happier and lead richer lives with that discussion.</p>
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		<title>By: Friends at work &#124; Great Not Big</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-284</link>
		<dc:creator>Friends at work &#124; Great Not Big</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 14:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] supposedly even try to restrict friendships in the office. This idea seems, to me, similar to the naive strategy of keeping your life in balance by strictly limiting the hours you work. My belief about having [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: Carl Erickson</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-280</link>
		<dc:creator>Carl Erickson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2012 13:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the thoughtful comment. While I certainly have been reading a lot about work/life balance and women lately, I hadn&#039;t ever thought of the phrase itself being created with women in mind. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the thoughtful comment. While I certainly have been reading a lot about work/life balance and women lately, I hadn&#8217;t ever thought of the phrase itself being created with women in mind. </p>
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		<title>By: Maevesp</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-279</link>
		<dc:creator>Maevesp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2012 08:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The phrase work/life balance was coined with women with children in mind. Research has found that while men see work and life as one women see it as too distinct arenas. Maybe that&#039;s because overwhelmingly children and other forms of care are still seen to be women&#039;s work, and work that cannot be taken into the workplace. So women see they have two arenas in which they need to do work that are competing against each other for their time and attention. I do agree that writing work out of the equation does not lead to more satisfaction but less. I don&#039;t agree that we should posit that work and life should not be pitched against each other, because for many people this is not something within their reach. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The phrase work/life balance was coined with women with children in mind. Research has found that while men see work and life as one women see it as too distinct arenas. Maybe that&#8217;s because overwhelmingly children and other forms of care are still seen to be women&#8217;s work, and work that cannot be taken into the workplace. So women see they have two arenas in which they need to do work that are competing against each other for their time and attention. I do agree that writing work out of the equation does not lead to more satisfaction but less. I don&#8217;t agree that we should posit that work and life should not be pitched against each other, because for many people this is not something within their reach. </p>
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		<title>By: Carl Erickson</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-224</link>
		<dc:creator>Carl Erickson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Paul. Scarcity of the only commodity that really matters (time), yet abundance of opportunity for how to spend that time. I guess it&#039;s that mismatch that makes it challenging, even when we forget and stop making conscious choices.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Paul. Scarcity of the only commodity that really matters (time), yet abundance of opportunity for how to spend that time. I guess it&#8217;s that mismatch that makes it challenging, even when we forget and stop making conscious choices.</p>
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		<title>By: Carl Erickson</title>
		<link>http://greatnotbig.com/2012/04/worklife-balance-is-a-false-idol/#comment-225</link>
		<dc:creator>Carl Erickson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Zach. Glad you enjoyed the post.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Zach. Glad you enjoyed the post.</p>
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